The Spicy boyfriend experiencE

Dominant AND charming? That’s my aim. I love working with all genders, backgrounds and orientations, including couples.

I offer a sliding scale for my services for other industry folks, LGBTQIA+, BIPOC, Disabled, or otherwise systematically marginalized folks. Please indicate if you’re interested in learning more in your booking message.

Local Dates (Philly)

  • 1.5 - 2 hours

    Looking for a get together? This is a great option for a first meeting if you want to grab a coffee or snack and get to know each other.

    $500

  • 3-5 hours

    Let’s cozy up on a romantic dinner date, do a puzzle in our PJs in front of a fire, or go on an outdoor adventure and enjoy each other’s company in every sense.

    Whether you’re wanting a home cooked meal paired with a curated cocktail, or a night out on the town, I’m here to give you the evening of your dreams.

    Some of my favorite experiences are:

    • Checking a bucket list item off your list (I love adventures!)

    • Cooking classes

    • Food markets

    • Rock climbing

    • History / Science / Art Museums

    • Live music (jazz, soul, classical, EDM, house, Afro)

    • Theatre shows

    • Local restaurants and small businesses

    • Mani / pedi date

    • Spa time

    • Wildlife / animal shelters

    • Picnics

    • Live Lectures

    $800

  • 12 hours

    Let me enjoy you to the fullest, taking my time to get to know the details and cuddles afterwards :)

    Requires one meal and social time - some of my favorite experiences are:

    • Checking a bucket list item off your list (I love adventures!)

    • Cooking classes

    • Food markets

    • Rock climbing

    • History / Science / Art Museums

    • Live music (jazz, soul, classical, EDM, house, Afro)

    • Theatre shows

    • Local restaurants and small businesses

    • Mani / pedi date

    • Spa time

    • Wildlife / animal shelters

    • Picnics

    • Live Lectures

    $2,000

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Not in Philly?

  • Can I get to you by train? This covers my train travel fees for cities along the East Coast (New York, DC, Richmond) up to 2 hours away.

  • I know what you’re thinking - dear god, will this human be coming my way anytime soon? Guess what, I navigate airports like a pro and I’ll gladly come to you for an adventure.

    • Must be a Minimum Dinner Date (3-5 hours)

Etiquette

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  • If this is your first time reaching out for professional BDSM, congratulations!

    You’ve already proven to have more courage than most.

    The first step is always the hardest and it’s totally normal to feel nervous.

    My advice for first-timers centers around basic self-care.

    -Make sure you’re hydrated, nourished, and well-rested.

    -Avoid intoxicating substances leading up to your session.

    -Do some research about your desired activities so you have an idea of what to expect

    -If you anticipate anal play in your session, make sure to prepare properly.

    -Try to schedule plenty of time to rest and process your experience after the session.

    A little preparation goes a long way towards having a great first experience!

  • A 50% deposit is required for all travel bookings ; 20% deposit is required for all local bookings.

    Deposits can be made via:

    Cash App: $AlexxxWilde

    Paypal:paypal.me/YourAlexWilde

    Your appointment will not be secured on My calendar until the deposit is received.

  • I require a minimum 48 hours notice for all cancellations (7 days for FMTY). With appropriate notice, your deposit can be applied to a rescheduled booking within the next 3 months.

    For cancellations within the 48 hour window, I require a 50% cancellation fee.

    For FMTY cancelled within the 7 day window, your deposit will be forfeit.

  • I practice excellent hygiene and expect you to do the same. That means freshly showered, teeth brushed and flossed, tongue scraped, lotion applied, hair brushed, nails clean and neat, deodorant applied and appropriate for the occasion clothing.

    Please do NOT douse yourself in cologne or perfume as I am sensitive to strong smells.

  • I require a valid photo ID as part of my screening process. This is non-negotiable. Safety is of the utmost importance to Me. Submissions without screening, will not be considered.

  • Safety is my number one priority.

    Alcohol in slight moderation is allowed (such as a glass or two of wine at dinner), but ANY signs of intoxication will give me the right to refuse and cancel our time together without a refund.

    No hard substances will be allowed on our date.

    This policy is set purely with safety in mind.

    It do not discriminate against people who use intoxicating substances.

  • Rates are for my time and companionship only. Anything beyond that is between two consenting adults. Let’s practice sharing and asking for what we desire!

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