Can I give you the night you deserve?

I know what it’s like to yearn, and what it’s like to feel safe enough to be fulfilled. From date night to dungeons, I enjoy getting to know people of all genders, backgrounds and orientations, including couples / groups.

I offer a sliding scale for other industry folks, LGBTQIA+, BIPOC, Disabled, or otherwise systematically marginalized folks. Please indicate if you’re interested in learning more in your booking message.

a NIGHT OUT IN PHILLY

  • Up to 1 hour, vanilla only

    Best for meet and greets or an efficiently quick work break ;)

    Incall: $350

    Outcall: $550

  • 1.5 - 2 hours

    Let’s grab a coffee or happy hour for the perfect first date or midday delight before a great time.

    Incall: $700

    Outcall: $500

  • 3-5 hours

    For those that want a relaxed and sensual time together. Let’s cozy up in a booth during live jazz, do a puzzle in our PJs in front of the fireplace, or go on an outdoor adventure before enjoying each other in every sense.

    Some of my favorite experiences are:

    • Checking a bucket list item off your list (I love adventures!)

    • Cooking classes

    • Food markets

    • Rock climbing

    • History / Science / Art Museums

    • Live music (jazz, soul, classical, EDM, house, Afro)

    • Theatre shows

    • Local restaurants and small businesses

    • Mani / pedi date

    • Spa time

    • Volunteering at wildlife / animal shelters

    • Picnics

    • Live Lectures

    Incall: $1,100

    Outcall: $900

  • 12 hours

    Can I spend the night? Let me enjoy you to the fullest, taking my time to get to know all the details + cuddles afterwards :)

    Overnights require two meals (fuel for our activities) and some social time (a dinner out, a show, a brunch coffee treat etc)

    Incall: $2,200

    Outcall: $2,000

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Let’s add some spice

  • With seven years of BDSM experience under my belt and continually learning more, I’m passionate about creating spaces where you feel safe to be undone by My touch.

    Scenes take time, negotiation, buildup, and aftercare. Each scene requires these elements and will never be skipped.

    I practice RACK, which stands for Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. It’s an approach to kink that fully acknowledges both the intensity and the inherent risks involved, while placing informed, enthusiastic, and ongoing consent at the center of every interaction.

    In my scenes, RACK isn’t just a concept but an active commitment. It reflects my values of radical self-responsibility, clear communication, and unwavering respect for consent and personal boundaries.

  • Want to make our time spicier?

    My aim is to create a safe space for you to share your fantasies with me and let me bring them to life.

    Experiences that I’m particularly good at curating include:

    Bondage (Handcuffs, restraints, duct tape, cuffs, etc) +$50

    Impact (Flogging, Canes, Paddles, PVC, Spanking, etc) +$50

    Pet Play (Puppy, Piggy, etc) +$50

    Consensual Non Consent (CNC) +$100

    Golden Shower +$150

    Electricity Play +$150

    Wax Play +$150

    Interested in something not on the list? Let’s practice asking for what we want!

  • Want all spice and nothing else? I don’t rush scenes. This is a dedicated time to solely create your fantasy.

    BDSM takes time, negotiation, buildup, and aftercare which is built into this time.

    1 hour Kinky / BDSM scene: $600**

    2 hour Kinky / BDSM Scene: $1000 **

    3 hour Kinky / BDSM Scene: $1500 **

    **Does not include cost of location. Each scene will be curated together and may take place in a hotel, rental or local, vetted dungeon for safety / cleanliness purposes or for the overall kinky experience.

  • 1 hour relaxing massage with body oils and aromatherapy:

    Outcall: $300

    Incall: 500

    +30 minutes: $100

    1 hour sensual massage with body oils and aromatherapy:

    Outcall: $450

    Incall: $650

    +30 minutes $175

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wANT Me TO COME TO YOU?

  • Can I get to you by train? This covers my train travel fees for cities along the East Coast (New York, DC, Richmond) up to 2 hours away.

  • I know what you’re thinking - dear god, will this human be coming my way anytime soon? Guess what, I navigate airports like a pro and I’ll gladly come to you for an adventure.

    • Must be a Minimum Dinner Date (3-5 hours)

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  • If this is your first time reaching out for professional BDSM or companionship, congratulations!

    You’ve already proven to have more courage than most.

    The first step is always the hardest and it’s totally normal to feel nervous.

    My advice for first-timers centers around basic self-care.

    -Make sure you’re hydrated, nourished, and well-rested.

    -Avoid intoxicating substances leading up to your session.

    -Do some research about your desired activities so you have an idea of what to expect

    -If you anticipate anal play in your session, make sure to prepare properly.

    -Try to schedule plenty of time to rest and process your experience after the session.

    A little preparation goes a long way towards having a great first experience!

  • A 50% deposit is required for all travel bookings ; 20% deposit is required for all local bookings.

    Deposits can be made via:

    Cash App: $AlexxxWilde

    Paypal:paypal.me/YourAlexWilde

    Your appointment will not be secured on My calendar until the deposit is received.

  • I require a minimum 48 hours notice for all cancellations (7 days for FMTY). With appropriate notice, your deposit can be applied to a rescheduled booking within the next 3 months.

    For cancellations within the 48 hour window, I require a 50% cancellation fee.

    For FMTY cancelled within the 7 day window, your deposit will be forfeit.

  • I practice excellent hygiene and expect you to do the same. That means freshly showered, teeth brushed and flossed, tongue scraped, lotion applied, hair brushed, nails clean and neat, deodorant applied and appropriate for the occasion clothing.

    Please do NOT douse yourself in cologne or perfume as I am sensitive to strong smells.

  • I require a valid photo ID as part of my screening process. This is non-negotiable.

    Providers, especially trans folks, are at high risk for violence, crime and harassment in this industry. I use this information to ensure that you are 18+, and to verify your identity. This information is not shared or used for any other purpose, and is stored in a password protected, encrypted file only accessible to me.

    Submissions without screening, will not be considered.

  • Safety is my number one priority.

    Alcohol in slight moderation is allowed (such as a glass or two of wine at dinner), but ANY signs of intoxication will give me the right to refuse and cancel our time together without a refund.

    No hard substances will be allowed on our date.

    This policy is set purely with safety in mind.

    It do not discriminate against people who use intoxicating substances.

  • Rates are for my time and companionship only. Anything beyond that is between two consenting adults. Let’s practice sharing and asking for what we desire!

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